My promise for regular uploads did not happen, for over 3 months this blog has been dead. For that I excuse myself to anyone who actually reads these blogs which I appreciate loads. Welcome back to my blog (and rant.) I will be talking about finding yourself aka how I am discovering myself … finger cross that it will inspire someone by this.
P.S let me know in the comments if the below will be helpful!
A few days ago I had the most bizarre thing! An adrenaline rush went through me and while I was studying suddenly many ideas from the back of my head started pouring and bombarding me with what I can do with life.
COUGH COUGH COUGH
If my Mum would ever read this is, she would probably say: ” WOW, you were so focused into your studies that you drifted off dreaming about the usual crazy ideas of yours. ”
I mean she would have a point since my exam was that day. Yep, I had the exams in a few hours and the lords of above spoke to me at that very day. So, what ideas? What do you mean you found yourself? New Beginning? So many questions guys geesh give me a breath! ( p.s I luv u and so does the universe)
Take a deep breath because now we are going to get in the real shi*
I am sure that all of you question who are you and what’s your purpose on life. What am I meant to do? If you are like me and you feel like you don’t want to have a boring life where it is circulated by school and studies only, start thinking on how you can change this. Stress really gets to me and I get really angry and snap at anyone who is around me. Recently, I have been avoiding this as life is too short and try to not have unnecessary fights with family. THEY LOVE YOU ALL CHILDREN!
I started changing by respecting the people around me (known as basic values). Sometimes we forget about the most basic things we should do. By this you start getting your mind healthier. TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND DONT’ OVER STRESS! Start reflecting more on life and appreciate it as how it is. Now moving on to finding ourselves.
Sometimes I wonder to myself whether the version I know of myself is the true person or whether I have many versions according to who I meet. Society pushes so much pressure on ourselves, example our behaviour needs to change with certain people. So much expectations! I have learnt to sit back, relax and just go with the flow and not to over stress things. If something goes wrong I will try to find my way if not from the door from the window I will pass from somewhere.
NOT KNOWING WHAT DO WITH YOUR LIFE
Society tells you:
- Find a job
- Have a good wage
- Have a family
- Have children
There is this idea that life and work are one thing. I am still 18 and yes we need work for money to buy things we want. Everyone should have the right to choose their own job even if it seems crazy or not ideal. Example new jobs that some people are still getting used too are Youtubers and Influencers. A day has 24 hrs so many things can be done in a day. A person can work 3 jobs taking summer off and explore the world or just go after their dreams. My opinion is to go after your dream even if it seems unrealistic.
So what’s my dream?
I have many ideas that I want to try such as YouTube, Blogging and Influencing not for the moeny but I really do find it fun. BUT apart that I have this artistic person inside me which I think with time and practice I can be able to do something creative. I am very intrigued by the idea of starting my own business. In fact I applied for a course for Marketing in IT. I hope that at least I will accomplish a few of these things along with enjoying life and travelling.
I hope this was somehow helpful to someone or not. I just got my guts out guys so before anyhting else I apologise for my bad English not my best element. THAT IS ALL HAVE A NICE WEEKEND.
My YouTube is a basic channel sharing tips and templates for people to use and I have never shown my face on it. My channel is ThatGirl4ver and my IG is Thatgirl4everig. Do you have any ideas of small business a teenager can start?